Takeaways from Panel Session: The View from the Register – Scaling Without Losing Connection with the Customer

There’s a funny thing about the cash register. It’s supposed to be the most boring part of retail—the beep, the swipe, the receipt you’ll lose in ten seconds. But really, it’s the moment of truth. It’s the handshake between a brand and a customer. It’s where efficiency meets expectation, and increasingly, where technology collides with humanity.

1. Technology makes it easy—but not memorable.
The numbers are striking: 73% of retail dollars now flow through credit cards, and shoppers spend up to four times more with plastic or digital wallets. Nearly half of Americans say they spend more when using a digital wallet. In other words, Apple Pay has quietly become a salesperson. But here’s the catch—despite self-checkouts and AI-powered promises (or people halfway across the world acting as AI in the case of Amazon Fresh), customers don’t want to lose the human touch. Speed matters, but so does a smile.

2. Customers want both efficiency and connection.
Our panelists—Linda Johansson James, Cindy Davis, and Casey Rosette—captured this paradox. Linda sees consumers eager to squeeze the most out of every purchase with loyalty points and convenience. Cindy leaned on her Nordstrom roots: personalization still matters, even if it’s just eye contact at checkout. Casey added that even Gen Z, the so-called digital natives, are flocking to stores. Why? Because shopping in person offers what the internet can’t: touch, texture, and the ability to actually try something on.

3. The little things create lasting impressions.
From Nordstrom’s attentive service to Vans’ custom shoes that arrive in a canvas bag with a note, small touches matter. At Purple Mattress, it’s asking for permission to re-engage with customers, not just assuming. And sometimes it’s as simple as a quirky extra—like a restaurant handing out bananas at the door. A nineteen-cent banana sparks a twenty-minute family conversation. Those small, unexpected gestures turn a transaction into a memory.

4. Friction is the enemy—but training is the antidote.
Wi-Fi drops. POS systems freeze. A single associate juggling a line can look like a deer in headlights. Technology won’t prevent breakdowns, but training can prevent meltdowns. As Linda said: you have one shot to take care of the customer. If you fail, they’ll shop somewhere else tomorrow. Cindy added: the happiest customer is the one who leaves with a bag in hand—even a small one. That means employees need back-up plans, authority to make it right, and yes, the ability to say “yes” instead of “sorry.”

5. The lifetime value question.
All the seamless wallets and automated systems circle back to one question: what is the lifetime value of your customer? If you don’t know, you’re already behind. Scaling retail isn’t just about speed at the register—it’s about connection. Behind every tap-to-pay is a human being who wants to feel like they matter. And that sense of mattering is what makes them come back.